I like to garden bathe. I immerse myself in the garden, letting it wash over me. It relaxes and restores me. I use the term garden bathing as an analog to the Japanese concept of forest bathing (shinrin-yoku) that has similar benefits. Forests are far from my house, but, fortunately for me, my garden is just on the other side of my door. Right now the star jasmine are in bloom, their white blossoms permeating the air with the fragrance of a tropical Eden. The sound of the water stream cascading into the pond helps calm any stress ripples inside me. And when a breeze passes through, it adds the rustle of bamboo to the far-away feeling.
My baths are not always long and quiet. Many are short and livened by visiting birds. Occasionally a basking fence lizard will give me a friendly gaze. Garden bathing settles my universe into its rightful order. I think the world would be a better place if everyone had a way to settle their own universe into its rightful order.






It happened in the spring. I was taking a stroll through the garden and noticed a baseball lying below the honeysuckle. Hmm, I thought. The honeysuckle is in the southwest corner so it didn’t come over the south or west fence. It had to come from the east or north. I picked up the baseball and continued my stroll. I found seven (!) more baseballs. Some were in places such that it was impossible for them to come from the east or north, but they could have come from the west or south. I can understand how someone could lose a baseball through an errant throw or hit. But would they keep throwing/hitting seven more? From different directions around my garden? Who has that many baseballs? Who has that many new baseballs? (They were all new.) No one has knocked on my door asking for lost baseballs. So now I am the proud owner of eight used-only-once baseballs. It certainly isn’t clear how they got into my garden. However, it did happen in the spring and, with the spheroids scattered among the shrubbery, it does fit the modus operandi of the Easter bunny. Now, I didn’t find any irrefutable evidence that there had been a large rabbit in my garden, but I’m just sayin’ …
The kumquat tree has been blooming. Its small white flowers form at the bases of leaf stems. When mature they open their petals and, in the shelter of their personal leaf, each offers a soft delicate citrus fragrance. They are like shy people with marvelous voices but sing only in the shower. A single voice may not travel far, but a chorus has a presence that surrounds and uplifts.
Being next to the tree in bloom is like being next to an open window to a fragrance dreamland. And when their song is over, each one leaves a small green remembrance. It will grow into a bright orange fruit with a taste sweet and tart and bold, belying the shyness of its parent.
In the spring Suzie will make kumquat conserve that we will enjoy immensely. And we will wait in anticipation for the next generation of shy blooms.







